Why it all began.
For the past 10 months, I have been involved (okay, obsessed) with the college application process to the University of California ("UC") eight campuses: Berkeley, Los Angeles, San Diego, Santa Barbara, Irvine, Davis, Riverside and Merced (UCSF is a graduate school concentrating on medicine).
It started when I began to help my then seniors in high school on their college applications in the fall of their senior year. I had heard and read about the college application process, and disregarded it "because my kids were in 10th grade, they're not seniors yet." Little did I know, the college application starts in fact in 9th grade [more on that in later blogs]. Now it was September, and the high schools were giving out notices to seniors about college presentations, college fairs, college workshops and SAT/ACT info. Applying to college has become a reality. Now.
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In October, there were a lot of college presentations that we made sure of attending. I was
overwhelmed with the college application process and the financial aid info. So were my kids. My kids and I attended a very helpful "Map to College Workshop", put on by UCSF, free to SFUSD students. Parents were welcome, and so I attended. There, we attended workshops on "How to fill out a UC application," "How to write a personal essay," and other college tips. By far, this is what one needs to attend before tackling the UC applications.
In November, my twins applied to their UC campuses. We tried to send it within the first two weeks of November, to avoid sending it last minute as we were told the system may crash if you send it near November 30th (the UC deadline date). Last minute SAT/ACT and SAT subject tests were taken to improve test scores, as December is the last test date UCs will accept.
And then the wait began.
March came and so did their (okay, our) anxiety. Decisions were in. Acceptances. Rejections. Disappointment. Tribulation. Surprises. More disappointment. Acceptances. Wait-listed.
In the end, to my children's jubilation, Caitlin was accepted to UCLA in the World Arts and Cultures Program with a concentration in dance and KJ was accepted to UC Berkeley as an undeclared major in the College of Letters and Sciences. They will start as freshmen this Fall 2011.
(Whew) Thank you, Jesus. (literally)
I am still in awe of their acceptances, considering the data put out that UCLA received a record high of 61,000 freshmen applicants for 4,500 spots. Cal received 57,000 applicants for about 4,300 spots.
Because I had so much information on this process, I wanted to share it with my friends who had sons in the 11th grade and will be going through this process. Tina and Lil met with me over coffee at Stonestown and I spilled with eagerness all the information I had to share about the college application process.
I then emailed some other friends on facebook who were also inquiring about my experience. I was asked for any tips. So, I decided to put out a "Joy's College Application Tips" handout I sent to a few friends whose kids were entering their senior year, and who will soon undergo this experience. I put together everything I knew, and any tips that would help them. And in some tips, I learned the hard way.
I wanted to share this information freely, sincerely and with the warmest intentions--to hold my fellow Tiger Mom's hands as they embark on assisting their child through the college application process.
Thus, this blog was born.
I will share my tips (based on that original hand-out I wrote) from a mother's point of view. The anxiousness, the excitement, the anticipation with the love only a mother can share when seeing her child go through the college admission process. After all, all we want as parents is the best for them.
Because I want to be accurate in my findings, I will focus my tips to students attending public schools in the San Francisco Unified School District (hence, the name "SFmom3"). However, you will certainly benefit from this information even if you are not a student in San Francisco. I will be specifically addressing the UC application process, not the Cal State University applications (it's actually pretty simple), the private school applications and The Commom App. I don't feel I am astute in giving info on that process. I will also not attempt to address the topic of financial aid as that should be left to the knowledgeable financial aid counselors. All I can say, is that I am currently going through that process, signing the promissory notes as we speak--and I am still confused.
In sum, I will try to help you through this, as I know as a parent, you are just as nervous to tackle this with your child.
P.S. I loosely refer to myself as a "Tiger Mom" both as satire with some intention. :)
Caveat: I am not affiliated in any way with the University of California system or their admissions offices. I am only giving you personal knowledge based on my personal experience. Therefore, I cannot guarantee your child will be accepted to his/her choice UC school. It's still up to the admissions officers, and the state of the UC budget.
Here's to an enlightening journey together,
~SF Mom3